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With cold weather here for a few months, use caution when playing in freezing temperatures, wind, dampness and cold. Children love playing in snow and cold, but prolonged exposure to such conditions can cause fatigue, reduce sensations of cold and increase the risk of hypothermia. Hypothermia happens when the body can't maintain its normal temperature. Symptoms to watch for are slurred speech, abnormally slow rate of breathing, cold pale skin and lethargy or apathy.
If your child is showing these symptoms, move the child out of the cold and remove any wet clothing as soon as possible. Don't apply direct heat. Instead, use warm compresses to the neck, chest wall and groin. Don't warm the arms and legs. This actually will force cold blood back to the heart, lungs and brain causing the core body temperature to drop. Your family doctor will also have advice for treating a child who shows symptoms of hypothermia.
Frostbite is also a factor in cold weather. The places most likely to be affected are hands, feet, ears and nose. First degree frostbite causes numbed skin that has turned white in color with underlying tissue feeling warm and soft. Second and third degree frostbite are serious medical conditions and need to be treated by a trained medical professional.
If you suspect a portion of your child's skin has frostbite, first, get out of the cold as soon as possible, warm the affected area by covering it with dry, gloved hands. Get emergency medical help if numbness remains during warming. If medical help isn't available, warm severely frostbitten hands or feet in warm - not hot - water.
Dress children in warm waterproof layers to prevent such conditions, and head inside when they start to complain of cold. Individual layers are easily removed if your child becomes overheated.
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When your child has a low grade fever for a few days, or if his or her fever shoots higher, see your family doctor. Also, if your child's runny nose and cough haven't improved after ten days, it could mean that he or she has a bacterial infection.
Remind children to wear a helmet if riding their bicycles, scooters or skateboards to school. Walkers must obey traffic signals and walk only in crosswalks. Fall is also a good time to make sure your child’s car seat is installed properly – try calling your local fire department for car seat safety regulations. Car seat safety information including laws is available at www.actsoregon.org.
Car seat safety classes are available monthly in the Hood River County Courthouse. Call WIC (Women, Infants and Children - 541-386-6882) for times and registration. Classes are free and open to the public. Car seats are available to participants for $25 each for those who meet WIC income eligibility guidelines.For older kids, going back to school can include being alone at home after school. Be sure to discuss with children when and how to answer the phone or doorbell. Create a handy first aid kit and teach children how to use it. Establish a regular check in schedule for your kids to let you know what they’re doing.
For children playing sports, it’s a good idea to have a general health exam before starting a new season of activities such as soccer, football or lacrosse. If your child has ever had a concussion through sports or other activities, check with your family physician about tests to make sure your child has fully recovered before returning to his or her sport.Fall also means time on the school playground. Parents can help make sure the equipment is safe and teach kids to play on equipment correctly and safely. For more info on playground safety, visit the www.healthinschools.org safety checklist.
Make sure your child is up to date on immunizations by checking our immunization schedule. If you have questions about immunizations, call the Hood River County Health Department, 541-386-1115, or your family’s healthcare provider.
Children and Sun
For babies, avoid direct sun exposure and dress infants in lightweight long pants and long sleeved shirts with brimmed hats. A minimal amount of sunscreen can be applied to small areas such as the face and back of hands.
For young children, apply sunscreen at least 30 minutes before going outside, even on cloudy days. Your sunscreen’s SPF should be 15 or higher.
For older children, the best line of defense is sunscreen and hats and sunglasses that block 99-100% of harmful UV rays. Light cotton clothing with a tight weave works well to keep out harmful UV rays. Reapply sunscreen every 2 hours.
Children and Heat
Heat stress is a real possibility as temperatures rise in the Gorge. Keep intense activities to a minimum when temperatures are high. Make sure children are well hydrated by encouraging them to drink at least 5 ounces of cold water or sports drink every 20 minutes (average for a child weighing about 88 pounds).
Children and Insect Bites
To avoid bug bites, don’t use scented soaps, perfumes or hair sprays on your child. Also, avoid places where insects nest, such as stagnant pools of water, uncovered food and gardens where flowers are in bloom. To remove a stinger from a child’s skin, gently scrape it off horizontally with a credit card or your fingernail.
Insect repellants with DEET are most effective, but should not be used on children under 2 months of age. Also, do not apply DEET under the clothing or on the hands of young children. Don’t use DEET around the eyes, nose or mouth, or over cuts, wounds or irritated skin. The concentration of DEET varies with each product. For more information on DEET, go to http://www.aapnews.org/cgi/content/full/e200399v1.
Children and Poison Oak
If you suspect that you or your child has touched poison oak, wash it off of your skin as soon as possible, preferably in a hot shower using a special soap such as ‘Technu,’ available in most drug stores. Bringing wet wipes and Technu along on hikes can be very helpful.
For a really bad case of poison oak your doctor may prescribe steroids to reduce the itching and swelling. Some helpful over-the-counter remedies are Benadryl gel, Rhuli gel, and Calidryl lotion (available at most drugstores) or tea tree oil (available in health food stores).
For more on these safety tips, and for tips on swimming, boating, fireworks, and bicycle safety, visit the American Academy of Pediatrics Website.
Consider choosing nontoxic products for your spring cleaning. For example, vinegar and water is an inexpensive and effective window cleaning solutions. Always store other cleaning products safely out of children’s reach.
If you’re moving furniture, be sure to place cribs, playpens and other furniture away from the window or potentially dangerous drapery cords.
It’s also a good time to check your home for recalled and banned children's products. To find out about recalled products, go to www.recalls.gov.
If you’re having trouble with pests such as ants, contact the National Pesticide Information Center at 1-800-858-7378. They will help you figure out the best and safest product to use for the pest you want to control. Pesticides can be harmful if not used correctly. After you've purchased the correct pesticide: Stop! Read the Label. It's the most important thing you can do. "The label will tell you how to use the product, what protective clothing to wear and what to do if there's an accident," suggest OSU Extension Agent Steve Castagonoli. "Whenever using pesticides, be sure to read, understand and follow the label instructions. If you are applying pesticides inside the home, make sure the product is labeled for indoor use." (See our Pesticides Article in the Family Health Page Archives)
Spring is also a great time to check all of your smoke alarms to make sure they’re working properly. It’s also a good time to develop and practice a family fire escape plan in case of emergency.
If you’re working in the yard, be sure to choose non-toxic fertilizers and insecticides. Check your play areas for poisonous plants such as poison oak. Keep dangerous lawn tools such as shears, rakes, weed-eaters, etc. away from children’s reach. Gardening tools made especially for children are a great way to keep kids involved in gardening safely.
Children love playing in snow and cold, but prolonged exposure to such conditions can cause fatigue, reduce sensations of cold and increase the risk of hypothermia.
Hypothermia happens when the body can't maintain its normal temperature. Symptoms to watch for are slurred speech, abnormally slow rate of breathing, cold pale skin and lethargy or apathy.
If your child is showing these symptoms, move the child out of the cold and remove any wet clothing as soon as possible. Don't apply direct heat. Instead, use warm compresses to the neck, chest wall and groin. Don't warm the arms and legs. This actually will force cold blood back to the heart, lungs and brain causing the core body temperature to drop. Your family doctor will also have advice for treating a child who shows symptoms of hypothermia.
Frostbite is also a factor in cold weather. The places most likely to be affected are hands, feet, ears and nose. First degree frostbite causes numbed skin that has turned white in color with underlying tissue feeling warm and soft. Second and third degree frostbite are serious medical conditions and need to be treated by a trained medical professional.
If you suspect a portion of your child's skin has frostbite, first, get out of the cold as soon as possible, warm the affected area by covering it with dry, gloved hands. Get emergency medical help if numbness remains during warming. If medical help isn't available, warm severely frostbitten hands or feet in warm - not hot - water.
Dress children in warm waterproof layers to prevent such conditions, and head inside when they start to complain of cold. Individual layers are easily removed if your child becomes overheated.
Requirements for children attending schools in Oregon are found on the
Oregon
State Department of Human Services website. For Washington, check
the Washington
State Department of Health website, which includes requirements for
preschool and childcare as well as school age children, adolescents and
adults. Immunizations can be obtained through your family physician or local health
department. In Klickitat County, families can obtain immunizations at the Klickitat
County Health Department with offices in White Salmon and Goldendale.
In Hood River County, go to the Hood
River County Health Department. In Wasco and Sherman Counties, see
the Wasco Sherman Health
Department. Residents of Skamania County can call the Skamania County
Department of Health at 509-427-5138 for an appointment. They are located
on 6835 SW Rock Creek Drive in Stevenson. While no child looks forward to vaccine injections, the benefits of preventing
serious vaccine-preventable diseases far outweigh the mild discomfort of
the shot and low risk side effects. Immunizations are an important step
in keeping kids healthy and read to learn.
Poison Oak is also a problem in our area. To identify poison oak look for its three-leaf pattern. As the old adage goes, "If a plant has leaves of three, let it be!" Poison Oak can change with the seasons, looking bright red or russet brown during the spring and fall, turning yellow green with pinkish colors on some of the leaves in the summer.Spring Cleaning
Archive # 43The urge may be upon you – to clean out cobwebs, dirt and a winters worth of dust and grime! Spring cleaning is something you don’t ordinarily think of as dangerous for your children, but here are a few precautions you can take to make the house a safer place this spring. Winter health for kids
Archive # 41With cold weather fast approaching, use caution when playing in freezing temperatures, wind, dampness and cold. Back to School Immunizations
Archive # 38 Making sure that your child’s vaccinations are up to date before
school starts will prevent a last minute rush to the doctor’s office
before classes begin. Check out the vaccination requirements for infants,
children and adolescents below.
Hiking Safely
Archive # 37No doubt, the Gorge is an ideal place for family hikes, whether you're backpacking with a group of older children or doing a short hike with babies or toddlers. Trails exist for all ages and abilities. Providence Hood River Memorial Hospital offers the following suggestions for a safe & fun adventure.
Be prepared:
1. With knowledge and gear. Become self reliant by learning about the terrain, conditions, local weather and your equipment before you start.
2. To leave your plans. Tell someone where you are going, the trails you are hiking, when you will return and your emergency plans.
3. To stay together. When you start as a group, hike as a group, end as a group. Pace your hike to the slowest person.
4. To turn back. Weather can change quickly in the Gorge. Fatigue and unexpected conditions can also affect your hike. Never leave the trail to take a shortcut.
5. For emergencies. Even if you are headed out for just an hour, an injury, severe weather or a wrong turn could become life threatening. Don’t assume you will be rescued; know how to rescue yourself.
Teach kids these skills and how to be safe and responsible in the outdoors.
Also, dress children in several layers of clothing. The inner layer should be a breathable, synthetic material that pulls moisture from the skin. Remember, a child’s body temperature changes faster than adults.

Beware of poison oak. It is extremely common in the Pacific Northwest and grows from sea level to 5000 feet altitude, appearing in various forms - as spindly plants, bushes or even as climbing vines. Poison oak often causes unrelenting skin itching, possible infection and spreads easily from one part of the body to another.
In the spring, its leaves are light, bright green or red with whitish green flowers clustered on the stems. In summer, leaves are green with small white berries appearing after flowers of spring. In the fall, poison oak leaves become darker in color appearing either bright red or russet brown. In the winter, beware of poison oak stems, sticks and vines, which still cause skin rash.
For more info about backpacking & hiking with children, see www.HikingWithKids.com
"Unfortunately, stories like Sarah's are growing in our community and across the nation," says Ted Chase, former PHRMH nursing supervisor and newly licensed psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner. "The demands being placed on emergency departments to provide mental health care continues to increase, and with limited psychiatric resources, ER personnel face a tremendous challenge."
Thanks to a community needs survey, sponsored by Providence Hood River, many people in Hood River County alerted us last year to the growing and unmet need for access to psychiatric services. This set in motion a much-needed change in how the hospital handles these types of situations. "PHRMH has a strong sense of mission and commitment to the community," Ted added.
Access to mental health services, along with several other needs from the survey, helped form Providence Hood River’s Mission Imperatives for 2004. PHRMH laid out a plan to expand mental health services in two areas of need: 1) Psychiatric consultation and connections to community resources for patients who are in the hospital for a physical ailment, but who have mental health ailments, too 2) Expanded outpatient psychiatric services, to include older people. The plan led to a decision to hire Ted Chase. "If Sarah's issue came up today, we would provide up-front treatment, develop a care plan and prescribe and manage any needed medications. We are now able to provide a better continuum of care," continued Chase.
Other Needs Discovered Other needs being addressed include access to healthcare for those without insurance, services to the frail and elderly, and medical assistance. Our 2004 community needs assessment is currently being conducted in Hood River County. PHRMH, in conjunction with a professional research firm, will continue to identify services and programs lacking in our community.
"We want the community to tell us what needs are out there and what we can do to make a difference," says Gary Young, Director of Mission Integration and Spiritual Care. "By communicating directly with our community, we no longer assume which programs are appropriate. They tell us what's needed and what's not."
This year's survey began in October with a dozen community leaders being personally interviewed, followed by 300-500 random phone surveys to community households, asking their opinion on a variety of topics ranging from housing concerns to racial and ethnic discrimination. To ensure the diversity of Hood River County was represented, local social service agencies delivered surveys to people without a telephone and conducted two focus groups among members of the Latino community.
"The process proved to be in-depth and incredibly thorough," continued Young. "We are encouraged by our community's willingness to participate and look forward to seeing the end results early in 2005. We will look closely at them and use them to develop new programs, expand existing programs, and look for ways to work with other community organizations."
Providence Hood River's goal is to help put needed programs in place to serve our diverse population. The community needs assessment has proven to be an effective beginning. For more information, contact survey coordinator Gary Young at 541-387-6450.
According to the Centers for Disease Control &
Prevention, recent tracking of positive flu tests from around the country has found overall low influenza activity in the United States as of mid-November.
Still, many people are concerned about the recent shortage of flu vaccines this year. Susceptible people include women who are pregnant during flu season, young children between the ages of 6 and 23 months and anyone with underlying chronic medical conditions.
Armanda Mason, RN, BSN, CIC, Providence Hood River Memorial Hospital’s Infection Control Practitioner, says there are a few simple things people can do to stay healthy during flu season. “To prevent sickness and keep it from spreading, wash your hands regularly, cover your mouth when sneezing and avoid close contact with people who have symptoms of an illness,” says Armanda.
Common flu symptoms include fever, headache, extreme fatigue, dry cough, sore throat, runny nose, and muscle aches. When symptoms appear, stay home to avoid spreading viruses. Get plenty of rest, drink plenty of liquids and avoid using alcohol and tobacco. Taking medications to relieve symptoms also helps. There are also anti-viral medications available with a prescription. These simple measures go a long way in preventing sickness during flu season. For more information, the CDC website features more tips on preventing the flu on their
website. If you have any questions, Armanda recommends calling your doctor.
Hood River Valley Christian Church is accepting school supply donations at their location on 975 Indian Creek Rd. in Hood River. Donated supplies are distributed to needy families throughout the county. All supplies are welcome, including pencils, glue, paper, crayons, calculators, markers, etc. Bring your donations Monday through Friday from 10am to 1pm. If you have questions, call Cathy at 541-386-2608.
The Hood River County School District Office is also accepting donations for needy families. Bring supplies to the District Office or Community Education Office in the Coe Primary Building on 1009 Eugene St., Hood River.
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The Salvation Army is also giving away backpacks full of school supplies to families in need. Cash donations are needed for this program and can be mailed to:
‘Salvation Army Back to School’
P.O. Box 682
Hood River, 97031
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Project Pencil is a program in cooperation with the Oregon National Guard that will provide school supplies to children in approximately 650 schools in Iraq. Local students will also receive a share of donated supplies. Any school-related donations are welcome excluding crayons. For more information, call the National Guard at 1-800-452-7500.
Earlier that same day, a truck slid off the road and hit a tree. Within minutes, emergency medical responders were on the scene, giving aid to the driver and passenger, with radio direction from the physicians and nurses at Providence Hood River Memorial Hospital's Emergency Departments. The victims were brought by ambulance to the hospital, where the ED team was ready and waiting.
"All of our physicians and our nurses are trained to save lives," reports Emergency Department Manager Jane Burke, RN. "Throughout the year, we learn the latest techniques and are re-certified in advanced cardiac life and advanced trauma life support for both adults and children," she adds.
Fortunately, most of the nearly 8000 who come to the ED each year don't come by ambulance or have life threatening illnesses and injuries. But, the ED is ready for anything. "We are really lucky," says emergency physician and ED Medical Director Tom Wilhelm, MD. "We live and work in a small town, but we have the technology and training of a larger hospital. We are equipped to deal with all kinds of medical emergencies, from tonsillitis to traumas." All the doctors are board certified in various specialties, and have extensive training in emergency medicine. A local surgeon is always close by, along with surgery, radiology, laboratory and respiratory therapy staff. Emergency doctors, nurses and admitting staff are on duty 24 hours a day.
What do people who use the Emergency Department have to say about their time there? They think it's one of the best in the country. For the last year and a half we've been sending surveys to patients a few days after their visit to the ED. On the question, "Whould you recommen d the PHRMH Emergency Department to others?" we rated among the top emergency departments in the United States throughout 2003 and into 2004. And, we continue to meet or exceed our patients' expectations, judging from some recent comments:
"Doctor had a good attitude, kept me informed about my condition, telling me what he wanted to do next and why."
"Considering my injury (car accident, back injury) the staff was quick and efficient treating me, although at the time I felt I was lying there, after diagnosis, for an inordinate amount of time. Days later I thought I'm glad they kept me there for observation. It was a very good experience."
"I was very impressed with nurse, doctor and receptionist. They did an exceptional job attending to a 3-year-old (and also making sure my 5-year-old wasn't being ignored). Very thorough and helpful, even when I had to call in with a question after the visit."
We read, learn and improve our services based on
all the comments we receive. "We are constantly working to make our
Emergency Department and our hospital the best in the U.S. for patience care and
patient satisfaction," Jane Burke says.
Seasonal allergies are common among children, and can definitely interfere with a child's ability to learn and enjoy one of the most beautiful times of year in the Gorge. Seasonal allergies can appear anytime after a child reaches 3 years old. Symptoms include a clear runny nose, stuffiness, sneezing, coughing, red, swollen & itchy eyes, as well as headache. When symptoms don't clear up within a week and are not accompanied by a fever, this is a good indication that you may be dealing with seasonal allergies instead of a cold.
Parents can help decrease exposure to allergens by:
Keeping pets out of your child's bedroom.
Putting an air filter in your child's bedroom. Keeping the room where your child spends his/her sleeping hours as allergen-free as possible will help significantly.
Leaving windows in the home closed and using an air conditioner during allergy season. Don’t forget to change the air filter in your air conditioner and there are several small particulate filters available for use during allergy season.
Avoid using a fan that draws in air from outside.
Reducing your child's exposure outside during windy and hot days.
Having a bath or shower and change of clothes after an extended period outside.
Frequent washing of your child's sheets & pillowcases during allergy season.
Use of nasal saline spray during allergy season to wash allergens from the nose.
Many other treatments are available, including dietary changes and allergy medications and testing specifically formulated for children.
For more information on the treatment of children's sinus and allergy problems, contact Dr. Mendy Maccabee at the Providence Hood River ENT Clinic 1151 May Street, 541-387-6125. Dr. Maccabee specializes in adult and child ear, nose and throat disorders, including sinus and allergy problems.
Providence ENT Clinic is located at 1151 May Street, 541-387-6125.
Children with a temperature of 100 degrees or more should STAY HOME.
Keep your child home if he or she is vomiting, has diarrhea, is unable to take fluids, seems weak or lethargic, has sunken eyes, a depressed soft spot on the top of an infant’s head, is crying without tears or has a dry mouth.
Children taking antibiotics should be kept at home until they have taken the medicine for one or two days.
If you know another child at the center has a contagious infection (chicken pox, strep throat or conjunctivitis) keep your child at home.
Teach your child to wash his or her hands before eating and after using the toilet.
Check your day care’s hygiene practices. Infection is often spread when children put dirty toys and hands in their mouths.
Before enrolling your child in day care get a complete physical exam on your child, especially to look for ear inflamma- tion (an indicator of future ear infections), review for allergies and examine tonsils to make sure their size is not impairing your child’s sleep.
"These ideas are all good," says Hood River family practice physician Janet Sjoblom, MD. "I would add the importance of using paper towels or giving each child a personal hand towel to use. And wait for their immune systems to get stronger as they get older." By the time they are in second or third grade they won’t spend the winter with the sniffles.
Source: www.entnet.org/KidsENT Kids E.N.T. (Ear, Nose and Throat) Health is a public education campaign presented by the American Academy of Otolaryngology – Head and Neck Surgery.
The Sandwich Generation
Is the stress of the 'Sandwich Generation' eating you?
You
need to take your son to a soccer game in La Grande, but your mother has to be
driven to Portland for an eye appointment on the same day. Your aging
father can no longer support himself financially, and your twins are starting
college in the fall.
Welcome to the 'Sandwich Generation,' the 40, 50 and 60-somethinigs who hold the generations on either side of us together.
You can forget about doing anything for
yourself, right? WRONG!
Amazingly, if you don't take care of some of your own needs you will be less
effective in caring for all those dependents. It isn't easy to make some
of the choices you must make, so here are some tips for coping with 'sandwich
generation blues.'
Lighten up on yourself. It's established that you can't do everything, so prioritize. The eye appointment could probably be re-scheduled. Do you have to go to every game?
Spend time and money wisely. Only do those tasks you absolutely cannot avoid. Use the rest of the time for yourself and/or your spouse. Get rid of 'shoulds.' Keep money worries from giving you an ulcer. Junior can do without a new ski outfit. Grandma doesn't have to be taken out to dinner every Sunday.
Paraphrase a well known quote: 'Love thy family AS thyself.' This does not mean BETTER than thyself. keep your eye on long-term goals, and remember: 'This too will pass."
After you've purchased the correct pesticide: Stop! Read the Label. It's the most important thing you can do. "The label will tell you how to use the product, what protective clothing to wear and what to do if there's an accident," suggest OSU Extension Agent Steve Castagonoli. "Whenever using pesticides, be sure to read, understand and follow the label instructions. If you are applying pesticides inside the home, make sure the product is labeled for indoor use."
Protect Yourself and Those Around You. Pesticides can be irritating to the skin, eyes, throat and lungs, especially for children. Be sure to wear the appropriate protective clothing when spraying or applying pesticides. Mix only the amounts needed and make sure to mix them outdoors in a well-ventilated area. Keep children and pets away from the mixing and spraying areas. Always wash your hands thoroughly after working with pesticides.
Poisoning is one of the biggest dancers of pesticide use. Children are especially vulnerable, since they often eat, drink and play in areas such as the lawn or floor where pesticides have been sprayed. If you think someone has been poisoned, call Poison Control at 1-800-222-1222.
Store pesticides safely out of children's reach. Chemicals of any kind should always be stored out of reach of children and pets. Always store pesticides in their original container and away from food, medicine and feed products. Locked storage is a good idea.
Dispose of pesticides and containers safely. Don't put unused pesticides directly in the garbage our pour them down the drain. Follow the label instructions for disposal and never use pesticide containers for other purposes. Hood River and Wasco County residents can dispose of up to 35 gallons per trip of household hazardous waste FREE at Portland's Metro Region two collection facilities. One is at 2001 Washington St., Oregon City. The other is at 6161 NE 61st St., Portland. Call Metro at 1-800-234-3000 for times and days they're open Their website at www.metro-region.org, has lots of helpful information on dealing with hazardous waste, too. Washington residents, call your county solid waste departments: Klickitat County, 509-773-4295, or Skamania County, 509-493-3313.
Summer's here and as the song says, "the livin' is easy." But emergency room doctors think of summer as "trauma season." Why is summer more dangerous? Kids are supervised less, spend more time outdoors and engage in riskier behavior like playing with fireworks.| 1. | Never leave children unattended in or near the water. Use life vests that have been approved by the U.S. Coast Guard on boats, docks and around deep or swift water. |
| 2. | Make sure children ALWAYS wear a helmet when riding a bicycle or scooter, rollerblading or skateboarding. |
| 3. | Slather children with sunscreen that has a Sun Protection Factor (SPF) of 15 or higher. Re-apply sunscreen after swimming or strenuous exercising. |
| 4. | Supervise children using playground equipment; make sure they stand clear of the front and back of swings while in use. |
| 5. | Keep children and pets away from areas where lawn mowers are being use. NEVER let a child ride on a lawn mower. |
| 6. | Minimize the risk of bee and insect stings by having children wear shoes and light-colored clothing outdoors. Never use insect repellent on infants. |
| 7. | Know the plants in your yard and teach your child not to pick or eat anything without first checking with an adult. Call the Poison Control Center at 800-452-7165 if you suspect a poisoning has occurred or to receive a list of poisonous plants. |
| 8. | Keep children from playing near barbecues and bonfires and ALWAYS have water present when fire is involved. Never let kids use lighter fluid. |
| 9. | Always use car seats, booster seats and seat belts when traveling by car or airplane. |
| 10. | Don't let children play with or near fireworks. (See sidebar for Consumer Product Safety Commission Fireworks Tips.) |
STAY SAFE THIS SUMMER AND HAVE FUN!!!!
Your friends at the PHRMH Emergency Department
| 1. | Babysitting: sign up for the Red Cross first aid course and learn key safety tips. Younger "tweens" can offer to work as "mother's helpers" by playing games with toddlers and babies so their mother can cook dinner, do chores, work in the garden or visit with a friend or relative without interruptions from the kids. Have your tween hand out fliers offering their services in your neighborhood. |
| 2. | Library: Join the summer reading program. Have a family reading contest to see who can read the most pages during the summer. |
| 3. | Volunteerism: See what volunteer activities are available through your church or contact the Commission on Children and Families 386-2500 to see if they can identify any volunteer needs. Tweens can offer to do weeding or light cleaning for an elderly neighbor, read to someone who's losing their eyesight, help an older person clean out their cupboards or garage or sort through photographs. Contact senior housing facilities or post fliers at apartment buildings for names of people who would like some assistance with these tasks. (Of course you want to check out the situation yourself before sending your teen there alone. Or, volunteer together; you'll set a great example of community service for your child.) |
| 4. | Check out the community education calendar and see what courses are available for kids. (Call the community Ed office at 386-2055 or check them out on line at our Community Ed Page, or at http://hrcommunityed.org. |
| 5. | Church activities: Most of the local churches sponsor a Vacation Bible School or other activities. The Hood River News publishes a weekly directory of church listings. |
| 6. | Hood River Aquatic Center: Open seven days a week. Kids 10 and older can swim alone without a parent in the building. (Make sure your child can swim and knows basic water safety before leaving them unattended.) |
| 7. | Before school ends check with your child's teacher or principal. Are there projects or extra credit activities that the child could complete over the summer? How about volunteering to help the teacher clean the classroom and take an inventory of materials and supplies? |
Busy kids won't have time to get in trouble so keep your active tween occupied instead of sitting home. As always, make sure you know where they are at all times. Use a pager or cellphone to keep track of their movements or have them phone you whenever they move to a different location. Have a fun and productive summer!
Q. We're
expecting a baby soon, we've attended childbirth classes, but we're still
terrified. What do you recommend?
A. Many people read and attend classes to prepare for childbirth,
but I also encourage them to spend some time getting ready for
parenting. After all, birthing typically involves several trained nurses
and a midwife or physician. One or two days later you're at home, and
it's just you and the baby.
Q. How do we get
ready?
A. Spend time with friends or relatives who have a baby to learn
basics like diapering, feeding and bathing. Also, there are many useful
books on the topic. My favorite authors are Penelope Leach and William
& Martha Sears. You can look through the parenting section of the
library or bookstore and find one that echoes your approach. I also
loved reading Operating Instructions, a Journal of My Son's First Year,
by Anne Lamott. Anne takes a loving look at the joy, stress, exhaustion,
despair, and humor of those first few months.
Q. My mother
wants to come and help out for a few weeks. Is that a good idea?
A. Absolutely yes, usually. A new mom needs help at home for
several weeks, so that she can just focus on taking care of herself and the
baby and healing from pregnancy and birth. The need is even greater if
birth was by cesarean section, because then mom is trying to recover from
surgery as well. Often her partner can take care of the household, but
it could be great to have an experienced hand (mom, grandpa or auntie or...)
to help cook, clean, do laundry and hold the baby when you need a nap.
Occasionally, having a relative or friend isn't helpful. Someone who
doesn't support your decision to breastfeed, for example, or who makes you
feel nervous or self-conscious, would best be invited for a short visit when
you and your baby are more settled.
Q. We're planning
to breastfeed. That comes naturally, right?
A. I highly recommend reading about breastfeeding, watching a video,
attending a breastfeeding class or doing all of these. While nursing is
nature's way, many moms and babes find it difficult to get started, and the
challenges can be even greater if birth is difficult or there are medical
problems. I also think it's a good idea to have a plan ahead of time
about whom you'll consult if problems arise, resources include the hospital
nursing staff, your or your baby's doctor, or your midwife.
Q. Anything else?
A. Yes, practice saying out loud several times, "Thank you,
that would be very nice." No matter how independent and private you
may be in day to day life, people with a new baby at home will benefit from
all the help they can get. Someone offering dinner? To do your
grocery shopping? To wash your bathroom floor? Now that you've
practiced, it would roll of your tongue, "Thank you, that would be very
nice."
Kristen Dillon, MD is a board-certified Family Physician who practices at Columbia Gorge Family Medicine. l She provides family-centered prenatal care and childbirth services, as well as primary medical care for all ages.
Like all good workers, parents deserve occasional breaks and rest periods, particularly when your child is in one of those difficult phases such as adolescence or the 'terrific twos. The most effective parents know that they cannot do it all by themselves. The recognize when they need a "time out."
For some parents, that means turning the child over to grandparents or other relatives for a few hours or even a week during school breaks. For others it means taking turns handling a colicky baby over to a babysitter or to your spouse for an hour or two. Preschool is often a welcome milestone for parents of active 3 year olds.
Whether you are thinking about starting a family, parenting your first child or have a house full of teenagers, you NEED a break from your parenting duties. A little time away from your child or children will make you a better parent. You come back to your daily chores refreshed and maybe with a new way of looking at a regular problem you and your child have had.
Ideally, you can organize your schedule so that you have several break times every day. In fact, making small children take naps and have an early bedtime in the evening can give you much greater coping skills for their awake, active hours. Other parents make sure they get up an hour or more before the children do so they can exercise or have some quite time to themselves before the chaos begins.
It's best to find the routine that works for you and your child so that you both have some time away from each other. The time you spend apart will increase your patience and your tolerance for mistakes and misbehavior. Try re-arranging your schedule to avoid those stressful situations such as long grocery checkout lines at 5pm with two hungry toddlers. If you're calm and relaxed, chances are you'll be able to handle your child's stressed out moments a lot better than if you're all at your wit's end!
At least once a week you should have an activity or outing that's just for you or for you and a partner if you have one. Don't have a granny nearby who can babysit? No problem! Just trade babysitting duties with another family or parent who has kids around the same ages as yours. Check out the GorgeKids.com Local Babysitter List. Sometimes caring for four children who play well together is less stressful than being only with your own one or two. The best part is that after you babysit for your friend's kids, you'll have time to go to the movies, a party or out for a hike while your kids are at your friends house!
Eczema: Eczema is red, very itchy dry patches of skin that often appear when children are infants. Over half the infants with this condition grow out of it by age two, but flare-ups can occure throughout life. Because it is a chronic conditions, it cannot be cured buy can be treated and controlled with proper guidance from a doctor. Here are some tips for children with eczema:
Many advances have been made in the treatment of eczema, reports Hood River dermatologist Dr. Luke Sloan. "Some of the new topical medicines don't have the side effects found in topical steroids, and they're safe to use on the face."
Warts: These are skin growths that most commonly appear on the fingers, hands and feet but often also occurs on the face. Over the counter remedies for warts can be very effective but they require tremendous patience since they take weeks to complete and may need to be repeated. A new "low tech" method for getting rid of warts is to cover the wart in duct tape and leave the duct tape untouched until it melts away. If the first application doesn't work, apply another piece of tape until the wart comes off. For persistent cases, your physician can freeze the wart with liquid nitrogen, destroy it with chemicals or burn it off with electricity or a laser. Here are some tips for preventing warts:
Acne: Acne is associated with the surge in hormones that occurs during adolescence. Poor hygiene, poor diet and stress do not cause it, but can aggravate acne. Acne treatment usually starts with cleansers such as Oxy-5, Oxy-10, Benzac, Aveeno Acne Wash or Neutrogena Acne Wash. If there is no improvement after six weeks of suing these products it's time to consult a physician or dermatologist. It is very important for the patience to follow the doctor's prescribed treatment plan carefully. Also make sure your child keeps follow-up appointments to evaluate the program and make any needed changes.
Children's skin problems may seem minor
but they should be handled carefully to prevent infections and even
scarring. Talk to your doctor if you have questions about your child's
skin.
How do you know your child has asthma? Some of the common symptoms in children ages 3 to 15 years are:
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What
Causes an asthma attack?
The lungs of children with asthma are very sensitive and react to outside 'triggers' like:
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Most children have mild to
moderate problems and can control their asthma with medicine at home or at the
doctor's office. For some children, however, asthma means many visits to
the emergency room and sometimes an overnight stay at the hospital. Help is on the way for
people with asthma: the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency Administrator
Christine Whitman recently announced a plan to find out how much pollution in
the air adds to asthma problems. The American Lunch Association is
supportive of the EPA's new approach. If you suspect your child
has asthma, call your doctor and schedule an appointment to discuss prevention
and treatment. For more information, see the American
Lung Association's Website.HOSPITAL HELMET PROGRAM HELPS KIDS RIDE SAFELY
Archive # 19Have you seen kids riding, skating, snowboarding or skiing without a safety helmet? It's a fact that helmets help kids avoid major injury, even save their lives. Because of this, PHRMH emergency/trauma nurses and docs offer a helmet for $5 to any child who needs one. They also fit helmets for kids who have them, but don't know how to wear them properly.
Here's what you can do to help:
Pick up some coupons from the ER Admitting Desk at Providence Hood River Memorial Hospital. Anytime you see or know of a kid who doesn't have a helmet or know how to fit it properly, give him or her a coupon for a brand-new helmet for just $5.
Encourage kids and their parents to come in and get a helmet and/or a free fitting.
Donate a few dollars to help buy more helmets.
If you or someone you know is planning to give a bike, motorbike, scooter, skate board, snowboard or skis as a holiday gift, remind them to buy a helmet, too.
If you'd like an emergency room nurse to come and speak to your school, church, or other group about helmet or seat belt safety, call Jane Burke, 541-387-6184.
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| 1. | Facts About Kids and Drug Use: Teens who smoke cigarettes are more likely to drink alcohol. Teens who smoke and drink are more likely to use marijuana. And those who use all three are more likely to use other illicit drugs. Research studies show that use of other illicit drugs among youth almost NEVER occurs unless they first use marijuana. One out of every five kids in eighth grade has already tried marijuana. It's critical to stop this pattern NOW. |
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Parents' Words and Actions Matter: Two-thirds of kids say that losing their parents' respect and pride is one of the main reasons they don't smoke marijuana or use other drugs. Your words and actions are important. |
| 3. | "It's Not Pestering, It's Parenting": Parents hate to nag their kids. Yet, it's important to keep track of what your kids are doing and who they spend time with. Most kids get in trouble between 3:00 and 6:00 p.m. If you can't be with your kids during that time make sure you know exactly where they are, who they're with and what they're doing. Get them involved in after-school sports, activities or a part-time job. On days they're home alone, check in with them often and give them plenty of chores and homework to do. Give them a beeper, cell phone or phone card so that they can always reach you. |
| 4. | Setting the Rules: Don't leave kids guessing. Tell them very clearly that you don't want them using substances - no tobacco, alcohol, marijuana, ecstasy or inhalants. Here are some rules you can establish: "If you're at a party and you see that drugs or alcohol are being used, the rule is to leave the party. Call me and I'll come and get you no matter where you are or what time it is." "I love you and I want the best for you so I don't want you using marijuana or any other drug." "You know drugs are not games. I don't want you doing them, not now, not ever." |
| 5. | Take the time to Listen and Talk: No special effort is required to listen to your kids on a regular basis about anything and everything. You can go for a walk around the block, talk while you're folding laundry, pulling weeds together or cooking dinner. Go out in the yard and throw a ball back and forth, shoot baskets at one of the schoolyards or go out for ice cream. You can talk while traveling in the car or over dinner. You can have a designated "Mom's Minute" or "Dad's Talk" every night at a certain time. But talk to your kids about drugs and about their lives. What do you say? "Honey, I love you, but you've got to know I'm your parent, not one of your friends. As your parent, I will not put up with you being in a place where drugs are being used." "It's my job as a parent to keep you safe, so I'm going to ask you questions about who you're with and what you're doing." |
| 6. | Give Them Tools: Rehearse lines that they can use with their friends if they get asked to drink or use drugs. "No way, man. Taking drugs is stupid." "You're kidding, right? Why would I do something so dumb?" "Why would I mess up a good thing? I'm cool the way I am." |
| 7. | Impose Consequences and Reward Good Behavior: If they break the rules have consequences you've told them about ahead of time: restrict television and internet use; suspend outside activities such as going out with friends or to the movies; disallow telephone calls; make them perform a community service. Reward good behavior such as doing an extra chore without being asked or remembering to call grandparents. That way, when you do have to impose discipline your child will know you are fair and not a tyrant who only focuses on bad behavior. |
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Find Other Things for Kids to Do: Find support. Enlist other parents to join forces with you and establish common rules for your children and their friends. Schools can help: guidance counselors, teachers and coaches. Kids need adults in their lives other than parents and community organizations are a great way to channel excess energy. A little time volunteering with a community program can help a kid make positive choices. |
| 9. | Talk to a Local Resource Person: Hood River County's Drug, Alcohol and Other Drug Prevention Specialist Maija Yasui, 386-3335, would be glad to help. So would Next Door, Inc.Youth and Family Services Coordinator Tobi Kuykendall, 386-4098. |
For more tips and information, download "Keeping Your Kids Drug-Free: A How-To Guide for Parents and Caregivers at
www.TheAntiDrug.com or call 1-877-SINDROGAS
Other resources: Make a Difference: Talk to Your Child About Alcohol at www.niaaa.nih.gov or call 1-800-487-4889.
Keeping Youth Drug-Free, US Dept. of Health and Human Services, Center for Substance Abuse Prevention.
www.samhsa.gov. or call 1-800-729-6686.
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| Safety on the Trail: Day Hike Backpack List Going hiking this summer? Changes in weather, failure of terrain, or even getting lost can leave you unprepared in the wilderness. Even on a day hike, you should take and know how to use these items: · Map and compass · Food and water · Extra clothing- including rain gear, sweater and hat · Flashlight with spare batteries · Fire/waterproof matches and candle · Sun protection - sunglasses and sunscreen · First Aid kit · Knife · Signal- whistle and metal mirror · Emergency shelter- plastic tube shelter or waterproof bivouac sack · Communication -- Cell phone, two way radio or tracking device |

The best way to identify poison oak is from its three-leaf pattern. As the old adage goes, "If a plant has leaves of three, let it be!"
| Poison oak changes with the seasons. In the spring its leaves are light, bright green with whitish green flowers clustered on the stems. |
| In summer, poison oak has yellow-green, pink or reddish colors on some of the leaves, with small white or tan berries appearing after the flowers of spring. |
| Poison oak becomes darker in color in the fall when the leaves turn bright red or russet brown. Finally, when winter comes the leaves and seeds fall, leaving sticks or whip-like stems or climbing vines. |
Poison oak contains an oil called urushiol, a strong skin irritant. When your skin comes in contact with this poison your immune system reacts and makes you want to scratch the contact site. If you touch poison oak you should wash it off your skin as quickly as possible, preferably in a hot shower. Immediately wash the clothes you were wearing in strong detergent or store them separately in a plastic bag until they can be laundered.
For a really bad case of poison oak your doctor may prescribe steroids to reduce the itching and swelling. Some over-the-counter remedies that may help are Benadryl gel, Rhuli gel, and Calidryl lotion (available at most drugstores) or tea tree oil (available in health food stores).
Life stresses - loss of a family member through death or divorce, problems at home, a move to a new area, a breakup with boy/girlfriend, problems at school, or ongoing rejection by other students are heightened for teens and can trigger mild to serious depression.
Children and adults can experience a brain chemistry imbalance that affects both mood and behavior. This imbalance can cause depression, even when there are no huge stresses in life at the time.
The best way to tell for sure if your teen is depressed is to get an evaluation from a mental health professional. A qualified expert can properly identify and treat both depression and substance abuse issues.
It's a myth that people who talk about suicide do not actually attempt it. If someone shares suicide plans or thoughts with you, listen with concern and get them to professional help immediately. Seventy-five percent of all suicidal teens and adults give some warning to a friend or family member. Let the person know you care: tell them they are not alone, that suicidal feelings are temporary, that depression can be treated. Call the police, a health care provider or local emergency room for help.
Where can you get help? Gorge Counseling and Treatment Services, part of Providence Hood River Memorial Hospital, has psychologists, a psychiatrist and a licensed professional substance abuse counselor on staff. Call them. They can help...(541) 387-6138 or 1-800-955-3911, ext. 76138.
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Signs of Teen Depression:
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Childhood fever: Common causes and treatments
Fever is very common in childhood. Most often, fever is caused by infection, and is a normal part of the process of fighting that infection, but may also result from some other illness. When the body detects infection, macrophages, which are the “janitors” of the body, find something that doesn’t belong, such as a virus, bacterium, or fungus, they mop up what they can, and at the same time, signal the brain to raise the body’s temperature. The fever is usually secondary to the infection, but should not be allowed to rise unabated.
Infections are caused by either bacteria or viruses. Antibiotics are only effective against bacterial illnesses. A medicine has not yet been developed that will kill cold or flu viruses, so you have to follow your body’s own defense system to fight the virus. Most common colds and flu are caused by a virus, not a bacteria. What causes fevers? Babies and children can sometimes get fevers following immunizations; a fever may also accompany a cold, flu, sore throat, ear infection, pneumonia, croup (which are most often viral illnesses), or urinary tract infections. Teething has also been known to cause fevers.
A fever is usually defined as a rectal temperature of at least 100.4 F. Normal body temperatures in a well child can range from 97.7 F to 100 F. If you want the most precise reading, rectal thermometer readings are recommended. To use a rectal thermometer, turn your child onto his stomach and gently insert the bulb about one inch into his anus (a little petroleum jelly helps). Hold it there for about a minute. Auxiliary thermometers are less accurate, however, can be used for most purposes. Hold the end of the bulb in the child’s armpit with his elbow against his side for about five minutes (the newer digital thermometers beep when they have finished the Measurements.) Underarm measurements register 1-2 degrees lower than rectal readings. Don’t use an ear thermometer until your child is over 2 or an oral (mouth)thermometer until your child is at least 3.
What should I do to treat a fever? In general, your child will feel more comfortable if you treat his fever immediately. To treat a fever in a child, you can do the following:
What shouldn’t I do to treat a child’s fever?
When should I call a doctor?
In general, if your baby looks good, and is responding and behaving normally, his temperature should come down. However, if your baby looks bad, is lethargic, not responding, is limp or lethargic, regardless of his temperature, seek medical attention.
If your child is having febrile convulsions (fever induced seizure); in a febrile convulsion, your child’s temperature will usually rise suddenly, causing him to turn pale, twitch uncontrollably, and perhaps even lose consciousness. Though they may seem to last forever, these seizures usually continue for only 20 seconds, and rarely last more than 2 minutes. If a convulsion lasts for more than 4 minutes, call 911 and or take your baby to an emergency room immediately.
Good Reasons to Not use Antibiotics for a Cold or Flu
Antibiotics will not cure the common cold, flu, or any other viral illness. Unless you have a bacterial infection, it’s best to avoid the possible adverse effects of antibiotics such as:
Secondary Infections: Antibiotics kill all the bacteria in your body that are sensitive to them, including those that help your body. They may destroy the bacterial balance in your body, leading to stomach upset, diarrhea, yeast infections, and other problems.
Bacterial resistance: Bacteria build a resistance to antibiotics that are used frequently. When you take an antibiotic, the bacteria it affects struggle to survive. The bacteria may successfully change so that it will become less vulnerable to the antibiotic. This has been recently termed a “SuperBug”. As a result, the antibiotic will not work on a future bacterial infection.
Side effects and allergies: Antibiotics sometimes cause allergic or toxic reactions which may be mild, severe, or even life-threatening.
Viral or Bacterial?
Viral Infections
Usually involve different parts of the body: sore throat, runny nose, headaches, muscle aches. In the abdominal area, viruses can cause nausea, vomiting, and or diarrhea.
New parents are often surprised and disappointed when their sweet little baby doesn't drift off to sleep every night listening to Brahms "Lullaby." In fact, bedtime in some households seems more like a battlefield than a tranquil nursery scene with Bo Peep and her sheep.
Parents complain about bedtime rituals lasting for hours, or endless nights of interrupted sleep. What can parents do?
In his book, Dr. Ferber recommends children learn to go to sleep without parental assistance. He claims "self-comforting" is a lifelong skill essential not only for restful sleep, but also for coping with frustration and other difficulties. His research shows children with good sleep habits do better in school and are more cooperative at home.
Dr. Chambers wisely cautions you check with your child's physician before starting any sleep training program. She also suggests starting the program no earlier than four to six months of age, when most babies are ready to sleep through the night.
Some parents believe it is cruel to ignore a baby's cries. True, research shows newborns are happiest if their needs are met promptly. But as they grow, babies can learn to comfort themselves for increasingly longer periods.
However, if you don't mind frequent sleep interruptions or if you enjoy longer bedtime rituals, your personal choice is best. Dr. Chambers encourages parents to stay consistent, whichever approach you use at bedtime. When we are inconsistent (i.e., we encourage a prolonged bedtime ritual one night and punish the child for doing the same thing the next night), children get confused and everybody gets frustrated.
Want to learn more about Dr. Ferber and his sleep research? You can check out his book at the Hood River County Library or other area public libraries and bookstores. If you'd like to talk to Dr. Liz Chambers, she can be reached at Gorge Counseling & Treatment Services, 541-387-6138. Sweet dreams!
It is quite normal for very young children to become angry when they cannot master things like zipping their coat or finishing a puzzle. Adults who share their lives with pre-schoolers need to stay calm and provide firm guidance and support when children act out.
If your child rips off his coat or knocks the puzzle to the floor in frustration, before you lose your temper, calmly say you know he's upset. Let him calm down, then encourage him to say how he's feeling (mad, stupid, frustrated). If he continues to yell or scream he may need to be sent to another room until he's calmed down.
After the child has regained control, you can tell him it's time to pick up the puzzle or try putting on his jacket again. Talk about other ways people have of expressing their feelings. Using the "Columbo" approach can help. Ask the child questions such as, "What else could you have done when you couldn't zip your coat?" Keep asking for other possible solutions. Let the child be the one to realize he could have asked for help, or could have taken the coat off and tried again later, or worn a sweater instead. Helping children come up with their own solutions is a great way for them to learn. It helps them understand that we all have choices and some choices are better than others.
When school-age children pitch a fit if they lose at a board game, or miss a shot in basketball, their friends will usually let them know they don't like it. When a friend says, "I don't want to play with you because you're a sore loser," children who are poor sports might change their ways. But, parents and other adults still need to remind children to use words and not hit people or throw things when they get upset. Teach them to recognize their anger before it gets out of control so that they can say to their friends, "This game is making me mad. Let's do something else."
As they grow, children can control their tempers better. Showing them how to make positive choices at a young age is an important developmental milestone.
By David Wade, Psy.D.,
Gorge Counseling & Treatment Services
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Birth to 2
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Hep-B |
How well immunizations work depends on each one being given at its scheduled time. A late vaccination is not as effective in preventing disease. These immunizations, which can prevent the spread of serious childhood disease, must be completed before your child reaches school age in order for your child to attend school in the State of Oregon. The Hood River County Health Department and PRHMH urge all parents to vaccinate their children. Financial assistance is available for those who do not have medical insurance.
For more information see the American Association of Pediatrics
For many parents, the only answer is try and work alternating shifts and fill in with child care in an attempt to blend family time and financial security. For other parents, the need to build a career or business must be included in the decision.
The good news is that there are ways to achieve a satisfying balance for everyone. It's best to start planning long before baby arrives. In fact, young people who want to become parents should consider career options that allow for part-time work, a home-based business or flexible schedules. If you save for a few years before babies arrive, one income will stretch farther.
Deciding which parent works and which one stays home, either part-time or full-time, depends on the unique skills and personalities of each family. Expectant parents should set aside lots of time for uninterrupted brainstorming during the months before the baby arrives. Ideally, these discussions should include not only paper and pencil budgeting sessions, but also each person's feelings and opinions about what's best for baby and what feels right to each parent. Hopefully, with lots of loving talk and compromising you can find the solution that's right for you. Whatever option you choose, make sure both parents accept and support this decision. In healthy relationships each partner feels that their contribution to the family's well being is valued by the other person. Good luck!
by Jean Sheppard, Providence Hood River Memorial Hospital